Eva Goes On Holiday # 3
Miss Manfred took the Heidi book away from me. I cried a bit because I like my Heidi book and I wanted to read it again. Miss Manfred said that she would read it to all of us, in the afternoon, when we are all lying on our beds having a rest.
My Mum sent me some sweeties because I asked for them but Miss Manfred
took them away too and she shared them out to everybody. But that’s all right because Miss Manfred shares out everybody’s sweeties and we get some every afternoon.
It is very nice to lie on my bed and suck a sweetie and Miss Manfred reads my Heidi book out loud and sometimes we all fall asleep after a bit.
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This morning Miss Manfred asked me if I could go and clean the rubbish bin in the toilets. I said I would and found the Vim and a brush and some cloths in the cleaning cupboard. Then I took the things into the toilets. There was nobody else there. I shut the door and because the bin was full of rubbish and I didn’t know what to do with it I tipped it all out on the floor. The bin was very dirty. I tipped in the Vim and got some water on the brush and scrubbed the bin until it was much cleaner. I dried it with the cloths. It was lovely and white after I finished cleaning it.
There was still the rubbish from the bin on the floor. I picked it all up again and put it back into the bin. I left nothing lying on the floor because I wiped the floor with the cloths too. It took a very long time.
Then I went out to play with the other children.
When it was teatime Miss Manfred asked me if I had remembered to clean the bin. She should know without asking because it took me a long time and I missed a lot of playing time because I was in the toilets. When I said yes, she said, are you sure, and she looked at me like Miss Speer does when she asks why there are no names on the blackboard. Her face was all shut in and her mouth was closed and in a line and her face came right down to mine and she asked again, if I was sure. Well, of course, I was and I was a bit frightened because she didn’t smile and I told her to go and look and that I had put everything back in the cleaning cupboard afterwards.
Miss Manfred said, very well then, but she didn’t smile and she didn’t say thank you either, which Mum says you must always do when somebody does something for you.
If only Adults would be more specific kids wouldnt end up in scrapes like that!! Poor Tyke!
ReplyDeleteWhat an awful squirmy feeling I had when I read that. I, too, remember being misunderstood and being unable to make things clear to an adult - the one and only time I was ever hit at school was by a teacher who made an assumption that I was too frightened/confused to set straight. Do you believe that these small childhood experiences loom large for us later in life? I do.
ReplyDeleteI tend to forget how children can misunderstand. We assume they are always tryng to get out of doing something, but perhaps not!
ReplyDeleteYou represent the potential cruelty of adults to innocent children very well. She frightened me.
ReplyDeleteAs ever a really wonderful blog. Please check out my blog...I've left you a challenge there :-)
ReplyDeleteA x
Friko
ReplyDeleteI eagerly look forward to Eva's Tale and The Scraper's Diary. I'm hooked!
Poor Eva. Can we not just let the children play?
ReplyDeleteDear, little Eva was extremely patient with the adults around her - and their poor behaviour! Hard for a child to figure out the reasoning and leaps of logic of adults!
ReplyDeleteher at home - you are so right
ReplyDeletePondside - squirmy feeling is good, I had/have plenty of those
Tabor - well, Eva wasn't
Fran Hill - you must be a very good teacher
Wipso - thank you; I shall come over and see what you've got
Martin H - I'm glad; it keeps you coming back
Prospero - Poor Eva indeed; As she didn't understand perhaps she got over it
Bonnie - hard for all children; we need to remember that
Hello Friko,
ReplyDeleteAs I read this chapter of Eva's tale, I just wanted to intervene, to jump into that story and explain everything. Make it all right.
Sooner something is addressed, sooner it can be healed. True for children, and adults, too.
xo
Took me back to childhood and that awful feeling of looking up to the almighty unknowable adults.
ReplyDeleteDear Friko,
ReplyDeleteI'll for sure keep this at least in my mind,for a long time to come, while speaking to my son.
A wonderful weekend for you.
Hi Friko~ I love the dramatic tension that builds in your stories. You're just as good as the scraper! I think in your defense, I might have added to the teacher that the bin had not been cleaned in a long time and was a major, time-consuming task for you. However, it really wouldn't have been wise to argue with this sort of mindset. I'm glad you got Heidi (I adored that book, too!) and a sweetie in the afternoon. You really know how to express yourself as a child would. You could write a children's story. xxox
ReplyDeleteChildren should come first, not adults' convenience. A powerful story you are sharing.
ReplyDeleteAloha, Friend Friko
Comfort Spiral
"Suffer the little children" means put up with them.
ReplyDeleteSuffer for them, tolerate their weakness.
Too many people get that backwards.
This really gave me the creeps.
ReplyDeleteWhen my 1 1/2 year old daughter wakes up tomorrow I will tell her she no longer needs to clean the bins.
Children are fragile, they have to live in an adult world and it is scary. Beautifully told story.
ReplyDeletefriko - childhood and adulthood is filled with moments like this that you describe here because we are so focussed on role. the parent has to parent all the time, the child has to do what makes the situation work whenever possible. often the confusion is about people sticking to their roles and not to themselves. you are such a beautiful writer. i am always left in awe!!!! steven
ReplyDeleteYou captured the spirit of Eva's surrounding so well. Children at that time didn't argue with adults. My mum always found it shocking that my children argued when they thought they were treated unjustly.
ReplyDeleteFrances - bless you
ReplyDeleteMark Kerstetter - 'unknowable adults' that's good
robert - thank you, the same to you
Margaret - thank you for wanting to defend Eva
Cloudia - too true, Aloha !
Lane Savant - we all need to learn this
Amada - not my intention, Amanda; I'm sure you are kind to your daughter anyway
Moannie - thank you very much
Steven - thanks steven, you are very kind; I'm sure you would have heard what Eva was saying
Ivy - Eva war sehr jung, es ist nicht leicht, sich gegenueber Autoritaetspersonen zu behaupten.
'Miss Manfred said, very well then, but she didn’t smile and she didn’t say thank you either, which Mum says you must always do when somebody does something for you.'
ReplyDeleteI was almost in tears there. That's how innocence is crushed. That's how it starts and then we, adults, reap what we sow. And we complain.
Marvellous post. Many thanks.
Greetings from London.
I remember that feeling where adults seem to have all the power and you very little of it. Eva is wise and patient beyond her years.
ReplyDeleteWhat a poignant scene this is, and your ability to put yourself in the mind of this child is wonderful. We all have memories of misunderstanding and being misunderstood by big people, and it serves us well to be reminded of that. How beautiful, Friko.
ReplyDelete03A Cuban in London - How lovely that you see that
ReplyDeleteArgent - children so often have to be when adults lack sensitivity
Deborah - thank you very much for that